Monthly Archives: January 2007

Chicken/Prawn Apple Appetizer

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Today, I am going to share with Singapore parents on using green apple as an appetizer.

Ingredients:
1 medium size green apple (diced)
300 gms of chicken meat (diced) or 300 gms of prawns (scaled)
2 teaspoon of TABASCO pepper sauce
2 teaspoon honey
Half teaspoon of coriander roots
1 teaspoon coriander leaves
1 teaspoon grated lemon rind
2 teaspoon lemon juice

Method (with CHICKEN):

  • Season diced chicken with 1 tablespoon of corn flour and 1 teaspoon of soy sauce
  • Heat wok and add 2 tablespoon of oil
  • Lightly fry till golden brown with medium heat
  • Dish out chicken and set aside to cool down before mixing with all the other ingredients
  • Chill well before serving

Method (with PRAWNS):

  • Scale prawns fully
  • Scald the prawns in boiling water (with a pinch of salt added to the water)
  • When the prawns turned to red colour, switch off the fire
  • Drain out prawns and let cool down before mixing with all the other ingredients
  • Chill well before serving

(You may want to retain the prawn water as stock for soup)

The above either version are simple enough to cook and is a really appetizer. So parents, do try them out. For those with smaller children, perhaps you should go easy with the pepper sauce.

Love Thyself

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Hi Parents

In busy Singapore environment, very often, we are concerned with our kids and family. So much so, we tend to forget ourselves. Here’s some pointers on HOW TO LOVE YOURSELF by Louise L Hay.

STOP ALL CRITICISM

Criticism never changes a thing. Refuse to criticize yourself. Accept yourself exactly as you are. Everybody changes. When you criticize yourself, your changes are negative. When you approve of yourself, your changes are positive.

DO NOT SCARE YOURSELF

Stop terrorizing yourself with your thoughts. It’s a dreadful way to live. Find a mental image that gives your pleasure (mine is yellow roses) and immediately switch your scary thought to a pleasure thought.

BE GENTLE, KIND AND PATIENT

Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself. Be patient with yourself as you learn the new ways of thinking. Treat yourself as you would someone your really loved.

BE KIND TO YOUR MIND

Self hatred is only hating your own thoughts. Don’t hate yourself for having the thoughts. Gently change your thoughts.

PRAISE YOURSELF

Criticism breaks down the inner spirit. Praise builds it up. Praise yourself as much as you can. Tell yourself how well you are doing with every little thing.

SUPPORT YOURSELF

Find ways to support yourself. Reach out to friends and allow them to help you. It is being strong to ask for help when you need it.

BE LOVING TO YOUR NEGATIVES

Acknowledge that you created them to fulfill a need. Now you are finding new, positive ways to fulfill those needs. So lovingly release the old negative patterns.

TAKE CARE OF YOUR BODY

Learn about nutrition. What kind of fuel does your body need to have optimum energy and vitality? Learn about exercise. What kind of exercise can you enjoy? Cherish and revere the temple you live in.

MIRROR WORK

Look into your eyes often. Express this sense of love you have for yourself. Forgive yourself looking into the mirror. Talk to your parents looking into the mirror. Forgive them too. At least once a day say: “I Love you, I really Love you.”

DO IT NOW

Do not wait until you get well, or lose the weight, or get the new job, or the new relationship. Begin now – do the best you can. 

So parents, do spare some time loving yourself. Hope above tips help.

Delights and Woes of the Week 0704

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This week, I would like to start with the woes first.

Yesterday, I lost my temper and scolded my husband. He was trying to help but what he did annoyed me so I blew my top. I have learnt to let out my frustration out instead of cooping inside me.

Parents, when you do have frustrations, do let them out or share them with someone instead of keeping everything to yourself. It will do your internal organs more good than harm and they will then function better. You will then have less ailments.

Now for the delights:

  • Kept my mum company on Monday and Friday. Physically, she is getting better. Mood wise, still need more cheering.
  • Accompanied my husband for his quarterly check-up at Singapore Toa Payoh Polyclinic on Wednesday morning. He lost about 1 kg, as compared from the last visit. Need to work harder to reduce more weight.
  • Completed my Reiki II course on Thursday. Hope to help more people achieve better wellness in their health.
  • Had a good night sleep last night from after midnight till 9 am this morning. It had been a long time since I last slept so well.
  • This afternoon, helped a comrade to enrol a Sec 4 student for advances learning techniques with MindChamps.
  • My youngest daughter, Yu Sin, shared that she won the badminton’s tournament. Next week, 2 more games coming up.

So much for this week.



Showing Love and Respect for others

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“The most important work you will ever do is within the walls of your own home!” – David O. McKay

Many people ask me how I manage 4 children and stay in workforce for so long, especially in Singapore context.Well, showing love and respect for each other is very important. From young, I ENCOURAGE my children to:

E njoy doing chores for the family such as cooking and housework
N ote each other’s likes and dislikes
C are for the younger ones and teach them when they are in doubt
O wn up wrong-doings such as telling the truth and face the consequence
U se appropriate decision-making skills
R ecognise that everyone needs privacy at times
A void criticism and name callings
G reet their elders, be it at home or when they make visits to their homes
E xchange ideas when doing projects

Hope parents will find the above tips useful. As the saying goes, it is up to us as parents to teach important values such as love and respect to our family.

Where is my 5-year old?

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Hi Parents
Tonight, would like to jolt your memory back to the time when you were a 5-year old kid. What was it like?

Well, as far as I can remember, my 5-year old had been a care-free one. No school yet, all I did with my siblings and neighbours was eat, play and sleep. Although there was no computer, we had fun doing things like:

  • playing marbles
  • throwing 5 stones
  • jumping the BIG balloon
  • rope skipping
  • playing catching
  • watching TV (black and white) in neighbour’s house
  • blowing soap bubbles
  • tapping paper balloon

In Singapore, working life can be rather stressful. But no matter how old we are, there is always a child inside us. Should you feel very tense on certain days, why not go to a nearest playground and sit down. Just watch the children play. If you want to join in the fun, go ahead. Or, just be a 5-year for a day and do what you want to do as a 5-year old.This is one good way to de-stress. Try it and you will be amazed that you find joy again.

Questions Children Ask About Animals and Plants

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Hi Parents

Below are some questions that your children may ask about animals and plants:

About Animals

 

I wonder:

  • why do birds fly away together when the weather gets cold?
  • can they talk to each other and say “Let’s go now”?
  • why does my cat hide her new kittens? I would not hurt them.
  • why do horses need shoes? Cats and dogs do not need them.
  • how can a bear sleep all winter? Does it not get hungry or thirsty? How does it know when to wake up?
  • how can a fly walk on the ceiling? Why does it not fall off?
  • how can a duck sit in the water without getting its feathers wet. I get wet when I am in the water.
  • why do squirrels and birds and fishes have tails?
  • how do fireflies make their tiny lights?
  • why does a turtle live in a shell?

About Plants


  • why does a morning-glory close in the afternoon? Can flowers tell time?
  • why do leaves turn red and gold in the autumn? Pine needles do not turn colour.
  • why do trees not die in the winter?
  • how do wild flowers get planted?
  • why do bees fly to flowers?
  • how can you tell how old a tree is?
  • how can you tell one tree from another tree?
  • how do plants eat? Do some plants really catch insects? Do they eat them after catching them?
  • were there always trees and flowers? What is the oldest plant in the world?

Well parents, for some of the answers to the questions, you do need to look up the encyclopedia. For some, how about making a trip down to the Singapore Zoo and some of the parks, gardens and nature reserves to explore further.

Below is the list of parks, gardens and nature reserves in Singapore:

  • Agriculture farms
  • Bukit Timah Nature Reserve
  • Chek Jawa
  • Chinese Garden
  • East Coast Park
  • Fort Canning Park
  • Labrador Park
  • MacRitchie, Peirce and Seleter Reservoirs
  • Mandai Orchid Garden
  • Marina City Park
  • Mount Faber
  • Pasir Ris Park
  • Singapore Botanic Gardens
  • Sungei Buloh Wetland Reserve

HAPPY EXPLORING . . .

 

Lotus Root Soups

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Lotus root is the rhizome of the nelumbo, also know as the Egyptian lotus, Indian lotus or sacred lotus. It is an aquatic herbal plant with peltate leaves borne above and floating on the surface of the water. The edible pale yellow rhizome is submerged in mud. It has been eaten as food for thousands of years.

In the medicinal aspect, lotus roots purity the blood. The young rhizome when harvested for eating, tastes like artichokes. The older ones are considered diuretic and are harvested all year round. When sliced transversely for use in soups in Chinese cooking, each piece will see many holes in it.

(1) Lotus root soup with octopus (serves 4 – 6 persons)

(Lotus roots purify the blood & dried octopus improves blood circulation) 

Ingredients:1 lotus root, washed well & cut into circular slices
200g Meat Bones, scalded in boiling water for 3 minutes
2 slices of old ginger
8 red dates (de-stoned)
2 pieces dried octopus, washed

Method (1) – using the crockpot:

  • Put all ingredients into a crockpot, fill ¾ full with HOT water.
  • Boil for 2 hours at medium heat.
  • Add light soy sauce (optional)

Method (2) – using the convention pot:

  • Put all ingredients into a deep pot, fill in 6 bowls of HOT water.
  • Bring to boil and reduce to low heat. Boil for 4 hours.
  • Add light soy sauce (optional)

(2) Lotus root soup with pork ribs (serves 1 – for confinement mothers)

Ingredients:

1 lotus root, washed well & cut into circular slices
300g pork ribs (preferably the pig’s tail portion), scalded in boiling water for 3 minutes
20 red dates (de-stoned)
 

Method:

  • Put all ingredients into a deep pot, fill in 4 bowls of HOT water.
  • Bring to boil and reduce to low heat. Boil for about 5 – 6 hours until the soup is about one bowl for consumption.

(The pork ribs can also be eaten, with the red dates, the meat taste sweet.)(3) Lotus root with chicken and sweet potato soup (serves 2 – 4 people)

Ingredients:

Half lotus root, washed well & cut into circular slices
Half a spring chicken (chopped into smaller chunks), scalded in boiling water for 3 minutes2 pieces sweet potatoes (the yellow/orange variety, cut into thick slices)

5 – 6 red dates (cleaned and soaked)

1 large onion (bashed)
1 knob ginger (bashed)

Method (1) – using the crockpot:

  • Put all ingredients into a crockpot, fill ¾ full with HOT water.
  • Boil for 1 hours at high heat.
  • Add light soy sauce (optional)

Method (2) – using the convention pot:

  • Put all ingredients into a deep pot, fill in 5 bowls of HOT water.
  • Bring to boil and reduce to low heat. Boil for 2 hours.
  • Add light soy sauce (optional)


Singapore parents, do try the above recipes out, especially (1) and (3). For recipe (2), it is more suitable for confinement mothers and older women folks. Men, avoid this.

Communication among siblings

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I have 3 brothers and 2 sisters. When we were young, we play together, go to school together and do a lot of other things together.

When we grew older and started to work, things began to change. We talk lesser to each other. Lucky for our parents, we still have activities during the weekends. We would go to restaurants around Singapore to try out different special dishes.After one by one got married, exchanges get even lesser. We would still meet at our parents’ home during weekends. When our children came along, priority is on them and sometimes we see each other less than 20 times a year. Of course, Chinese New Year would be a rowdy one where all will bring their children to pay respects to our elders.

After my dad’s demise last year, we had intended to spend more time with our mum. However, there seemed to be communication breakdown. Mum was left alone most of the time and that was how depression set in. Of late, we have been talking to each other more often, to help mum regain her old self.

It is rather sad that we had to wait for a crisis to happen before coming to unity again. For the sake of our mum, I sincerely hope this will continue.

Delights and Woes of the Week 0703

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Finally, we got to see the sun this week in Singapore. So, I am delighted that:

  • I went to the Toa Payoh temple to pay respect to my dad on 17/1/2007 (his birthday).

  • The CPT event on Make an IMPACT in your presentations on 17/1/2007 at Suntec City Guild House was a success with 17 participants turning up.
  • I was able to spent a day with my mum and cheer her up a bit. She is now more agreeable to get a maid.
  • I enrolled my daughter, Yu Mei, for Reiki from 19/1 – 21/1. Hope she will benefit from these 2 half-day sessions, both physically and emotionally.
  • I get to meet familiar faces again and also made some new friends during these few days.
For the woes, have yet to do some spring cleaning this week and also filing of documents. Must kick this habit of piling up.

Parents, hope you have been doing the delights and woes with your children on a daily basis. I am also trying to my kids to share theirs with me.

Reunion dinner

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This year, Chinese New Year is on 19 February 2007 which is about one month away. Traditionally, Chinese families would gather for a feast one day before the start of the Lunar New Year. This meal is known as “tuan yuan fan” or “Reunion Dinner” since it is almost always eaten after nightfall as the last meal of the old year.

The venue is usually held in the home of the most senior member of the family. This is one of the most important meals for the Chinese. Members of the family, near and far, get together for celebration. The reunion dinner should be eaten with all immediate family members present as a symbol of strength and unity in the family.

There is usually an abundance of food prepared for this meal, even by poorer families. The Chinese believe that having an excess of food on the table symbolizes good fortune for the New Year, as it would bring excess wealth. Depending on which Chinese ethnic group and region, below are some traditional food or meals that are prepared on this special day:

  • “Jiao zi” or dumplings. Meat and vegetables are wrapped not with rice but with a skin made of flour. This is a food commonly eaten as a meal in Beijing or northern parts of China. Family members would join in to make the dumplings which can be eaten throughout the New Year.
  • Steamboat dinner, or “huo guo”. This is popular in Singapore and Malaysia. A family sits around a pot of steaming soup, place uncooked pieces of food into it and fish it out when it’s ready. This dish is easily prepared dinner since all is needed is uncooked food and the soup.
  • “Fa cai”, or black moss, is eaten as the name of the moss sounds like “to become prosperous” in Chinese.
  • Fish is a must but not eaten up completely (and the remainder is stored overnight), as the Chinese phrase (nián nián you yú), which means “may there be surpluses every year”, sounds the same as “may there be fish every year.”
  • Raw fish salad, or “yu sheng”, may also be eaten. This dish is not found in China but in Singapore, Malaysia and Hong Kong. Its name sounds like “growing luck”. This dish is also eaten on the 7th day of the Lunar New Year.
  • “Nian gao”, also known as year cakes, may be fried to usher in the New Year. This is a sweet, sticky and glutinous cake which the Chinese believe that would make the New Year sweet and bring prosperity.
  • Some Taoist or Buddhist families might abstain from meat throughout the New Year. However, for poorer families, this might be the only time of the year when they can eat meat in abundance. A kind of preserved meat, called “rou gan” or dried meat, is popular during this season.
  • Another popular dish is tamarind and star anise chicken.
  • Buddha’s delight, also known as (luóhàn zhai), is an elaborate traditional vegetarian dish comprising 18 ingredients. A type of black hair-like algae, pronounced “fatt choy” in Cantonese, is also featured in Buddha’s delight and other dishes, since its name sounds similar to fatt choy, the Cantonese word for “prosperity.”

This list is definitely not exhaustive as many Chinese communities living around the world may have their own unique food or dish for the reunion dinner.

Shou Sui

‘Shou Sui’ is when members of the family gather around throughout the night after the reunion dinner. During this time, they will reminisce about the year that has passed while welcoming the year that has arrived. Some people also believe that children who (Shou Sui) will help to increase the longevity of the parents.


So parents, do share with your children on the significance of Reunion Dinner and Shou Sui. It is a good tradition to be passed down.

 

Internet Usage by Youngsters in Singapore

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On the front page of today’s Straits Times – “Young children lead online charge in Singapore”.The annual IDA survey shows that:

  • 90% of children under age group 10 – 14 use the Internet to communicate, play and learn
  • 64% come from those in the age group 15 – 59
  • 20% are those above 60 who were the least Net-savvy

And what are the top online activities that are of interest to these children (10 – 14)?

  • 60% send email (42% uses MSN Messenger to send instant messages)
  • 58% play games
  • 52% use internet for learning
  • 33% visit chatrooms
  • 27% share personal data in social sites like the Friendster
  • 18% download music/movies

In this present era, the Internet is inextricably woven into the lives of today’s kids. Like one student said: “I cannot imagine life without the Internet.” While this may be a fact, parents still need to be aware of the time spent by children on the internet. This is to ensure that they are not addicted to computer gaming. Take note of the following:

  • Is your child spending more and more time on gaming?
  • Is he/she neglecting his studies, CCA, family and friends?
  • Is his/her study or CCA performance deteriorating?
  • Is he/she feeling restless, irritable or discontent when not playing computer game?
  • Is he/she going to bed much later than usual or waking up 4 am in the morning just to play the game before going to school?
  • Is he/she developing health problems such as eye strain, weight gain and backaches?
  • Is he/she lying to the family and teachers about his playing pattern?
  • Is he/she feeling guilty, anxious or upset because of his habit?
  • Is he/she denying or rationalizing the negative consequences resulting from playing too much computer game?

If you answer is “YES” to several of the questions, then your child could be addicted to computer gaming! Want to know more of these ‘danger’ signs log on to http://www.parentingchampions.com/.

” Be Alert! Before Your Child become a Computer Gaming Junkie “

Baby Boom or Gloom in Singapore

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In World news of today’s Straits Times, there were 2 articles – one on “BABY BOOM in France” and the other on WEDDING GLOOM in the US”. What irony?For the first article, the France government had attributed the increase in population growth to its family-friendly polices, such as:

  • Offer of Euro 750 (S$1,500) a month to parents who take one year of unpaid leave after the birth of a 3rd child;
  • Large families get shopping discounts;
  • They also enjoy reduced fares on public transport;
  • French fathers are also guaranteed paid paternity leave.

Although the Singapore government also provide incentives to encourage parents to have more children, we have yet to see the fruits desired.While sharing this news with my youngest daughter, she also related what happened in class today. The teacher was asking them who were the only child and how many have 2/3/4 children in their family. Guess what? My girl was the only one who has 3 other siblings. Many parents are still reluctant to have more than 3 children and I think this trend will continue.

For the 2nd article, the census shows that more American women now live without a spouse than with one. For Singapore, although this may not be the case, many career women prefer to remain single. The same goes for many men who choose to be free of marital commitments. How sad!For my 4 children (3 girls and 1 boy), I do not know what they have in mind. All I ask is that they be happy and enjoy their school lives for now.

Papa's Birthday

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Yes, today is Papa’s birthday. Had he been alive, he would have been 80.I was at the Toa Payoh Lorong 6 temple with my husband and elder 2 kids to pay our respect. At his tablet, I fought back my tears. Still miss him . . .

Papa, wherever you are, just hope you are happy. Mum is the surviving parent we have now. Please bless her with good health and may she be rid of worries.

Beetroot Juice / Agar-agar

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Hi
Today, I am going to share with you a juice and a dessert, using beetroot.

Mixed Fruit Juice

Fruits required – One medium size beetroot, 2 stalks of celery, 1 carrot and 1 orange.

De-skin the beetroot and orange. Together with celery and carrot, just cut them into smaller size to fit into the juicer and there you go, a very refreshing juice to perk you up in the morning.

Beetroot Agar-agarIngredients – one large beetroot or 2 medium-size ones, 1 packet of ‘Clear’ agar-agar powder and half a tub of nata de coco.Preparation:

  1. Extract about half a cup of juice from the beetroot and set aside
  2. Follow the instructions on agar-agar packet and cook accordingly. However, use half cup of sugar instead of one cup (the syrup in nata de coco also contains sugar)
  3. When the agar-agar boils, shut the fire, add in the beetroot juice
  4. Then add in the nata de coco and stir well
  5. Scoop into small jelly cups or a big bowl
  6. Leave them to cool for a while before putting into the fridge

Goodness of beetroot

It is known for its startlingly red flesh. This root vegetable is rather versatile. When roasted, it can be sliced and added to salads for a bright splash of colour. In Indian cuisine, beetroot is used in chutneys and curries.

Beetroot contains virtually no fat, has few calories and is rich in iron and Vitamin C. The flesh is also a good source of fibre.

Singapore parents, must try out the above juice and dessert. Your children and family will love them.

Delights and Woes of the Week 0702

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It has been another rainy week in Singapore. Well, life still goes on. I am delighted that:

  • I managed to do some spring cleaning. It sure was good feeling to rid of some old stuff.
  • In the course of clearing up, guess what I found? An “Aiwa” radio that is still in working condition. It is now in my bedroom and I am able to enjoy some music in the morning.
  • I brought my husband for a free massage at The Adelphi and he sure enjoyed it.
  • The Graduation Nite on 11/01/2007 for the Certified Professional Trainer course was a fun and interactive one.

For the woes, my mum is still unwell. My siblings and I have been taking turns to take care of her.

Let’s look forward to more sunny days ahead. And mama, may you also cheer up as the days get sunnier.

Effective Communication With Your Teen

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As parents, we want the best for our children and it pains us to see them making choices that can lead to disastrous consequences. The following tips may be helpful while CONSULTing with our teens.The word ‘CONSULT’ has been used as an acronym and serves to tell our teens that we would like to deal with them with respect.

C are for their needs – With the ever changing times, needs of today’s teens also changed. Forget about the past. Focus on present trends and be mindful to keep up with new technology, new products and who knows what . . .

O bserve house rules – Whatever their age, it is always good to set house rules for the teens to follow. Allow exceptions though when the situation calls for it. Examples would be late nights when there is a party to attend or increase in hand phone bills due to project work.

N urture their strengths or interest – While it is important to pursue academically, do also allow your teen to engage in something that they are passionate about. Encourage their hearts and focus on inspiring them to excel on what they do best.

S upport their activities – From secondary to junior college or polytechnic level, there are a lot of activities, besides school work. Show support in whatever they are doing. Who knows, you will also learn along the way. As mentioned earlier, parents need also to keep up with the times, especially the educational aspect.

U nderstand their emotions – As juvenile as it may be, this is the world they live in. Whatever emotion they are experiencing is real and it is important to not discount how they feel. Be empathetic and genuine in our conversation and let them know we understand how they must feel.

L isten readily – In Singapore, we live in a world where we are taught to have answers for everything and quickly fix the problem. When spending time with our teen, it is important to really listen to what they are saying. It is time to put to rest all the thoughts that might be racing through our head about how we can fix their problems. It is not solutions they are seeking. Sometimes, they just want us to hear what they are saying and genuinely care about their situation.

T rust them to trust you – In today’s youth culture, adults also have to earn both trust and respect. It is extremely important that we do not compromise our integrity and are true to our word. Do not laugh at how they handle a situation or mock at them privately or publicly. As long as a teen is not being hurt or hurting themselves, it is vital to keep our conversations confidential. Teens need someone they can rely on and confide in.

So parents, do take a moment to break away from your busy lifestyle and take your teen out for a bite to eat, a walk on the beach or a bike ride in the park. Underneath that thick skin or hardened attitude is a kid screaming to be loved and listened to.

CONSULT with them. You will be glad you did!

Graduation Nite

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What graduation and whose graduation nite?

It’s mine!

I signed up for the Certified Professional Trainers course with Quest Group in Sep 2005. Only attended the 3 weekend workshops in Mar and Apr 2006. Completed the last assignment in Nov 2006.

HOORAY to me and all those who make it. We were awarded The International Professional Managers Association (IPMA) certification to be a Certified Professional Trainer (CPT).

The event last nite held at

NUSS Guild House Suntec City saw more than 30 of us going up the stage to get our certificates. The youngest candidate is in the early 20s and the oldest one if beyond 50 years. Whatever age, it goes to show there is no boundary when it comes to learning.

The welcome address was delivered by K C See, CEO of Quest Group. This was followed by a speech by Allan Sensicle, Vice Chairman of IMPM UK. Then, we were treated to a 4 course sumptuous dinner. 3 other CPT graduates also display their presentation skills. Cheng Lin spoke on “Good Things Come in Small Size” and June Tan on “Power Dressing”. The finale was by Doris Hui who led us on line dancing. What fun we had!

And what will the rest of us be training? Well, it’s what we do best or a new-found interest. For me, I want to share parenting tips with parents and their children. This blog that I have started is part of the preparation towards this goal.

Singapore parents and those elsewhere, hope you have enjoyed my articles so far and will continue to support me.

Questions Children Ask About Themselves

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Hi Parents

Remember the time when your children ask you questions about themselves like:

I wonder why:

  • I can see red balloons, blue, yellow and green balloons
  • I see big things, little things, round, square and sharp things too
  • I can hear planes roaring, boys whistling, whispers and shouts
  • I can smell cookies baking, sweet and spicy smells, flower smells and gasoline
  • I can take hamburgers, marshmallows, salty peanuts, sour lemonade, hot chocolate and different flavours of ice creams
  • I can touch smooth pebbles, furry kittens, squashy mud and soapy water
  • I can step up and down in the dark
  • I can tiptoe and slide and jump rope and turn somersaults
  • I can talk and sing and laugh and cry
  • And I can ask questions

Instead of looking up books or the encyclopedia for answers, how about explaining these ‘wonders’ through fun and play. What do I mean? Well,

  • For colours, show them how primary colours can be mixed to form other secondary colours. This can be done using water colours or crayons. While the children have fun mixing the colours, they can also draw at the same time.
  • For different sizes and different shapes, get the children to look of objects that are round, square, triangle or whatever they can find. Then, compare the sizes. Can also use origami to make balls or fold into boxes.
  • For sounds, get them to make all types of noise, be it whispers, shouts, animal calls and lots more. Can also get them to imitate tones of anger, joy or sadness.
  • For smell, get them involved in cooking preparation. While helping mummy, they also get to learn which items are sweet smelling, which are sourish, bitter, hot and . . .
  • For touch, get them to touch all the things in the house, from sofa, curtains, windows and let them tell you which are soft, hard, springy and so forth.
  • For moving around in the dark, be careful to guide them one step at a time. Share with them in time of emergency, when there is no electricity, the safe way to move about and where to look for torch lights or candles.

The above are just some tips on how to have fun and activity with your kids. If you have other ideas, do write and share.

Orange Chicken/Fish/Prawns

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Hi

Today, I am going to share with you how to use orange juice to cook chicken, fish or prawns: Orange Chicken

Ingredients:

  • 2 Oranges – extract juice and set aside (should have about more than half a cup)
  • Half a chicken (chopped into small chunks) or 300 grammes of chicken fillet (cut into bitable size)
  • 5 to 6 Onions (sliced thinly)
  • Spring onions (optional – to be cut into 6 cm stalks)
  • Cucumber and tomatoes (optional – for decoration around the edge of the plate)

Preparation (serves 4 – 6 persons):

  1. Marinate chicken meat with 1 tablespoon of cornflour, 2 teaspoons of soya sauce and half teaspoon of pepper. Leave for half an hour.
  2. When the wok is heated, add in 2 tablespoons of oil
  3. Turn to medium heat and put in the chicken
  4. Stir fry for about 5 minutes ensuring that the meat is cooked
  5. Dish out the chicken, then put aside
  6. With the remaining oil, put in the onions and stir fry until you get the fragrance
  7. If too much oil, remove some, otherwise just add in the chicken, followed by the orange juice
  8. Reduce heat and simmer for 5 minutes, stirring occasionally
  9. Before dishing out, add in spring onions and extra soya sauce to suite taste desired

For fish and prawns, the steps are the same. If golden brown fish/prawns preferred, add in more cornflour and fry them slightly longer before setting them aside.

Goodness of orangeIt is rich in vitamin C and has a refreshing taste when cooked in this manner.

My children have enjoyed this dish of mine. Singapore parents, I am sure you and your family will like it too.  Go on, try it . . . 

Delights and Woes of the Week 0701

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It has been an eventful week indeed. I am delighted that:
  • My little girl wrote us a ‘Love’ letter (see blog dated 6 Jan 2007)
  • I am able to do brisk walking in the mornings with my husband (still working to do it everyday with him)
  • I was able to cook for my mum today and clear off some misunderstanding within the family
For the woes, we are sad that our mum is still unwell. We have more or less cleared the unhappiness that she is facing. However, we are still concerned on her health, especially insomnia.

As our surviving parent, mama, do get well soon. We want you to be happy.