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Lessons learnt daily


Hi

Singapore parents

 Below extract was written by Andy Rooney who has the gift of saying so much with so few words.  Enjoy…

 

       

 

“I’ve learned that:

  • the best classroom in the world is at the feet of an elderly person.
  • when you’re in love, it shows.

  • just one person saying to me, “You’ve made my day!” makes my day.

  • having a child fall asleep in your arms is one of the most peaceful feelings in the world.
     

  • being kind is more important than being right.
     

  • you should never say no to a gift from a child.
     

  • I can always pray for someone when I don’t have the strength to help him in some other way.

  • no matter how serious your life requires you to be, everyone needs a friend to act goofy with. (right on!)
     
  • sometimes, all a person needs is a hand to hold and a heart to understand.
     
  • simple walks with my father around the block on summer nights when I was a child did wonders for me as an adult.
     
  • life is like a roll of toilet paper. The closer it gets to the end, the faster it goes.
     
  • we should be glad God doesn’t give us everything we ask for.
     
  • money doesn’t buy class.
     
  • it’s those small daily happenings that make life so spectacular.
     
  • under everyone’s hard shell is someone who wants to be appreciated and loved.
     
  • to ignore the facts does not change the facts.
     
  • when you plan to get even with someone, you are only letting that person continue to hurt you.
     
  • love, not time, heals all wounds.
     
  • the easiest way for me to grow as a person is to surround myself with people smarter than I am.
     
  • everyone you meet deserves to be greeted with a smile.
     
  • no one is perfect until you fall in love with them. (So true!)
     
  • life is tough, but I’m tougher.
     
  • opportunities are never lost; someone will take the ones you miss.
     
  • when you harbor bitterness, happiness will dock elsewhere.
     
  • I wish I could have told my Mom that I love her one more time before she passed away.
     
  • one should keep his words both soft and tender, because tomorrow he may have to eat them.
     
  • a smile is an inexpensive way to improve your looks.
     
  • I can’t choose how I feel, but I can choose what I do about it.
     
  • when your newly born grandchild holds your little finger in his little fist, that you’re hooked for life.
     
  • everyone wants to live on top of the mountain, but all the happiness and growth occurs while you’re climbing it.
     
  • the less time I have to work with, the more things I get done.

So parents, hope you have enjoyed the above tips on lessons learnt daily.

Recipe for Mycofarm Mushrooms

Hi Singapore Parents

Today, will share one mushroom recipe with you.

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This is for one pack of 150 gm Mycofarm mushrooms:

  1. Slice fresh mushrooms, if desire.  Else leave it as a whole.
  2. Heat up 2 tablespoons of oil in a pan.
  3. Add 10 grams of chopped garlic and fry till golden brown (If vegetarian, can omit this).  For chilli lovers, can add in shreds of chillies to your liking.
  4. Add mushrooms and stir fry for 1 minute.
  5. Add 1 teaspoon of oyster sauce, 1 teaspoon of sesame oil and while pepper.  Stir fry for another 3 minutes or until mushrooms are soft.  Can also consider other sauces if oyster sauce is not desired.
  6. For wine lovers, stir in 1 tablespoon of Chinese wine and serve immediately while hot.

So parents, try out this simple, tasty and healthy dish.

When you are 102 . . .

Dear Singapore Parents

George Carlin is 102 years old and below are his views on ageing:

Do you realise that the only time in our lives when we like to get old is when we’re kids? If you’re less than 10 years old, you’re so excited about ageing that you think in fractions.

‘How old are you?’ I’m four and a half!’ You’re never thirty-six and a half. You’re four and a half, going on five! That’s the key

You get into your teens, now they can’t hold you back. You jump to the next number, or even a few ahead.

‘How old are you?’ ‘I’m gonna be 16!’ You could be 13, but hey, you’re gonna be 16! And then the greatest day of your life …. . You become 21. Even the words sound like a ceremony. YOU BECOME 21. YESSSS!!!

But then you turn 30. Oooohh, what happened there? Makes you sound like bad milk! He TURNED; we had to throw him out. There’s no fun now, you’re Just a sour-dumpling. What’s wrong? What’s changed?

You BECOME 21, you TURN 30, then you’re PUSHING 40. Whoa! Put on the brakes, it’s all slipping away. Before you know it, you REACH 50 and your dreams are gone.

But wait!!! You MAKE it to 60. You didn’t think you would!

So you BECOME 21, TURN 30, PUSH 40, REACH 50 and MAKE it to 60.

You’ve built up so much speed that you HIT 70! After that it’s a day-by-day thing; you HIT Wednesday!

You get into your 80’s and every day is a complete cycle; you HIT lunch; you TURN 4:30 ; you REACH bedtime. And it doesn’t end there Into the 90s, you start going backwards; ‘I Was JUST 92.’

Then a strange thing happens. If you make it over 100, you become a little kid again. ‘I’m 100 and a half!’


May you all make it to a healthy 100 and a half!!

HOW TO STAY YOUNG

1. Throw out nonessential numbers. This includes age, weight and height. Let the doctors worry about them. That is why you pay ‘them’

2.. Keep only cheerful friends. The grouches pull you down.

3. Keep learning. Learn more about the computer, crafts, gardening, whatever. Never let the brain idle. ‘An idle mind is the devil’s workshop.’ And the devil’s name is Alzheimer’s.

4. Enjoy the simple things.

5.. Laugh often, long and loud. Laugh until you gasp for breath.

6. The tears happen.. Endure, grieve, and move on. The only person, who is with us our entire life, is ourselves.. Be ALIVE while you are alive.

7. Surround yourself with what you love , whether it’s family, pets, keepsakes, music, plants, hobbies, whatever. Your home is your refuge.

8. Cherish your health: If it is good, preserve it. If it is unstable, improve it. If it is beyond what you can improve, get help.

9. Don’t take guilt trips. Take a trip to the mall, even to the next county; to a foreign country but NOT to where the guilt is.

10. Tell the people you love that you love them, at every opportunity.

AND ALWAYS REMEMBER :
Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take,
but  by the moments that take our breath away.

So Singapore parents, hope you find the above tips useful and enlightening.

Instant Noodle Alert

Hi Singapore parents

Would like to share with you the right way to cook instant noodles without harming our bodies and health.

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Normally, we would put the instant noodles into a pot of water, add in the seasoned powder and let it cook for around 3 minutes.   By doing this, we actually boil the ingredients in the powder, normally with MSG.  It will then change the molecule structures  and cause the MSG to be toxic.

Also the noodles are coated with wax and it will take around 4 to 5 days for the body to excrete the wax after consumption.

Here is the recommended way to do it:

1.  Boil the noodles in a pot with water.
2.  Once the noodles are cooked, drain and throw away the water which contains wax.
3.  Boil another pot of water and put the noodles into the hot boiling water and then shut the fire.
4.  Only at this stage when the fire is off, add in the seasoned powder to make noodle soup.
5.  If dry noodles are desired, take out the noodles, add the seasoned powder and toss it to get dry noodles.

For plain noodles without the seasoning, you may also need to boil in water and discard the water. This will soften the noodles.  To prevent it from sticking, you can add a teaspoon of oil or run it under cold water.

A large number of people aged 18-24 years are getting pancreatitis either as a swelling or infection of the pancreas.  One of the reasons was due to regular consumption of instant noodles.  If the frequency is more than 3 times a week, it can be hazardous . . .

So parents, hope you find the above tips useful and be mindful when cooking instant noodles for your family.

A Story about Choices . . .

Hi

Singapore Parents

Today, would like to share a story about Shay . . . 

At a fund-raising dinner for a school that serves learning disabled children, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that would never be forgotten by all who attended.. After extolling the school and its dedicated staff, he offered a question: “When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does is done with perfection. Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do. He cannot understand things as other children do. Where is the natural order of things in my son?”
The audience was stilled by the query.
 

The father continued. “I believe that when a child like Shay, physically and mentally handicapped comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true human nature presents itself, and it comes in the way other people treat that child.”
Then he told the following story:

 

  

Shay and his father had walked past a park where some boys Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, “Do you think they’ll let me play?” Shay’s father knew that most of the boys would not want someone like Shay on their team, but the father also understood that if his son were allowed to play, it would give him a much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.

Shay’s father approached one of the boys on the field and asked (not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy looked around for guidance and said, “We’re losing by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I guess he can be on our team and we’ll try to put him in to bat in the ninth inning.”

Shay struggled over to the team’s bench and, with a broad smile, put on a team shirt. His Father watched with a small tear in his eye and warmth in his heart. The boys saw the father’s joy at his son being accepted.. In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay’s team scored a few runs but was still behind by three. In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove and played in the right field. Even though no hits came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to ear as his father waved to him from the stands. In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay’s team scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases loaded, the potential winning run was on base and Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.

At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but impossible because Shay didn’t even know how to hold the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.

However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting winning aside for this moment in Shay’s life, moved in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay could at least make contact. The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and missed. The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss the ball softly towards Shay. As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher.  

The game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball to the first baseman. Shay would have been out and that would have been the end of the game.  

Instead, the pitcher threw the ball right over the first baseman’s head, out of reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands and both teams started yelling, “Shay, run to first! Run to first!” Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he made it to first base. He scampered down the baseline, wide-eyed and startled.

Everyone yelled, “Run to second, run to second!” Catching his breath, Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and struggling to make it to the base. By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the right fielder had the ball … the smallest guy on their team who now had his first chance to be the hero for his team. He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman for the tag, but he understood the pitcher’s intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball high and far over the third-baseman’s head. Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.

All were screaming, “Shay, Shay, Shay, all the Way Shay”

Shay reached third base because the opposing shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the direction of third base, and shouted, “Run to third! Shay, run to third!”

As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and the spectators, were on their feet screaming, “Shay, run home! Run home!” Shay ran to home, stepped on the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the grandslam slam and won the game for his team.

“That day,” said the father softly with tears now rolling down his face, “the boys from both teams helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into this world.”

Shay didn’t make it to another summer. He died that winter, having never forgotten being the hero and making his father so happy, and coming home and seeing his Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!

So parents, would you have made the same choice??? A wise man once said every society is judged by how it treats its least fortunate amongst them. 

May your day be a Shay Day!!

The goodness of Coconut water

Hi Singapore Parents

Do you know that coconut water contains organic compounds possessing healthy growth promoting properties that can help:

  • Keep the body cool and at the proper temperature
  • Orally re-hydrate your body, it is an all natural isotonic beverage
  • Carry nutrients and oxygen to cells
  • Naturally replenish your body’s fluids after exercising
  • Raise your metabolism
  • Promote weight loss
  • Boost your immune system
  • Detoxify and fight viruses
  • Cleanse your digestive tract
  • Control diabetes
  • Aid your body in fighting viruses that cause the flu, herpes, and AIDS
  • Balance your PH and reduce risk of cancer
  • Treat kidney and urethral stones
  • Boost poor circulation

   

Coconut water is naturally low in carbohydrates,  99% fat free and low in sugars.  Contrary to traditional belief, coconut water is:

  • more nutritious that whole milk - less fat and no cholesterol
  • more healthy than orange juice - much lower calories
  • better than processed baby milk - it contains lauric acid which is present in human mother’s milk
  • naturally sterile - water permeates though the filtering husk
  • a universal donor - it is identical to human blood plasma
  • a natural isotonic beverage - the same level we have in our blood

Based on a 100 ml drink, coconut water:

  • contains more potassium (about 294 mg) than most sports drinks (117 mg) and most energy drinks
  • has less sodium (25 mg) where sports drinks have around 41 mg and energy drinks about 200 mg
  • has 5 mg of natural sugars where sports and energy drinks range from 10 - 25 mg of altered sugars
  • is very high in chloride at 118 mg, compared to sports drinks at about 39 mg

So parents, do consider coconut water as a regular booster than the usual sports or energy drinks.

BRA knowledge

Hi Singapore mothers 

Do you wear bra for the whole day and even at home?  If you do, please read this article.

 

Study has shown that when a woman wears a tight bra: 

1)    She subjects her breasts to pressure;   

2)  The lymphatic pathway is closed from the breast to the node;

3)    This causes fluid built-up swelling, tenderness and cyst formation;

4)    It prevents toxins to be flushed out via the lymphatic;

5)    It cannot adequately perform this cleansing process, resulting in toxin accumulation in the breast.

The truth is bras create droopy, weak breasts - the breast relies on the bras for artificial support; the body loses its ability to support the breast by itself.  This is why many women feel uncomfortable without the bra.

For breast cancer patients, it had been found that virtually all of them wore bras over 12 hours.
 
So what is the solution to breast cancer then?  STOP WEARING A TIGHT BRA!  It would be good to sleep without them.

There is a remarkable success rate for recovery from fibrocystic breast disease within 10 days to two weeks of going bra-free.  Many women have tried going bra-less and recorded a miraculous improvement in their health!   

Bra burning is no longer a feminist issue.  It is now a battle between life and death for some. We should make others more aware of the hazards of wearing them. 

So mothers, do share the above tips with your daughters.

Women over 40 is PRICELESS

This is what Andy Rooney thinks about women over 40:As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why”:

A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, ‘What are you thinking?’ She doesn’t care what you think.  If a woman over 40 doesn’t want to watch the game, she doesn’t sit around whining about it.  She does something she wants to do, and it’s usually more interesting.  

Women over 40 are dignified.  They seldom have a screaming match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive restaurant.  Of course, if you deserve it, they won’t hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it.  

Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved.  They know what it’s like to be unappreciated.  Women get psychic as they age.  You never have to confess your sins to a woman over 40.  Once you get past a wrinkle or two, a woman over 40 is far sexier than her younger counterpart.

Older women are forthright and honest.  They’ll tell you right off if you are a jerk if you are acting like one.  You don’t ever have to wonder where you stand with her.  Yes, we praise women over 40 for a multitude of reasons.  Unfortunately, it’s not reciprocal.  For every stunning, smart, well-coiffed, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22-year old waitress.  Ladies, I apologize.

For all those men who say, ‘Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?’, here’s an update for you.  Nowadays 80% of women are against marriage.  Why?  Because women realize it’s not worth buying an entire bull just to get a little sausage!

To all the women above 40, treasure yourself as you advance each year!

Thoughts on Youth and Age

Hi Singapore Parents

A friend has sent me a note about thoughts on youth and age.  The words were so excellent and provoking and I would like to share with you.

    

Getting older is the only way to live long.

The age of maturity is that age at which one is still young and is much more resourceful.

What most torments me about the foolishness of my youth, is no the crazy things I have done . . . but the fact that I can’t go back and do them again.

To get old is to go from passion to compassion.

Many people reach 80 because they waste time rying to stay at 40 forever.

At 20, desire rules; at 30, reason rules and at 40, it’s time for good sense and judgement.

Whoever is not beautiful at 20, strong at 30, rich at 40, nor wise at 50, will never be beautiful or strong or rich or wise.

When we pass 60, there are fewer things that we think are absurd.

Young people think the old are ridiculous.  The old know the young are ridiculous.

A mature person goes back to find the serenity once enjoyed as a child.

Nothing passes by as quickily as the years . . .

When I was young, I was told “You’ll see when you’re 50″.  I’ve passed 50 but I don’t see anything.

In the eyes of youth, there burns a flame.  In the eyes of the old, there shines a light.

The initiative of youth and the experience of the older each have equal value.

There is a small child inside each one of us.

Each age calls for it’s own appropriate behaviour.

Young people travel in groups, adults travel in pairs and old people walk alone.

Happy is the one who was young as a youth and happy is the one who is wise in old age.

We all want to grow old and we all want to deny when we have arrived there.

WE NEED TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT THE PASSING YEARS -

HOW TO LIVE THEM AND NOT JUST ACCUMULATE THEM!

So Singapore parents, do note the tips of growing old and becoming wiser . . .

Womanhood

The following poem is dedicated to all woman folks.

 

 Time passes. Life happens. Distance separates. Children grow up.
Jobs come and go. Love waxes and wanes. Men don’t do what they’re supposed to do.

Hearts break. Parents die. Colleagues forget favours. Careers end.
BUT……… Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how many miles are between you,
A girl friend is never farther away than needing her can reach.

When you have to walk that lonesome valley and you have to walk it by yourself, the women in your life will be on the valley’s rim, cheering you on, praying for you, pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and waiting with open arms at the valley’s end.

Sometimes, they will even break the rules and walk beside you . . . or come in and carry you out.  Girlfriends, daughters, granddaughters, daughters-in-law, sisters, sisters-in-law, Mothers, grandmothers, aunties, nieces, cousins, and extended family, all bless our life!

The world wouldn’t be the same without women, and neither would I. When we began this adventure called womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or sorrows that lay ahead.  Nor did we know how much we would need each other. Every day, we need each other still.

 

So ladies of all ages, enjoy your womenhood.